Does Single and Sober have an app?

No – we do not have an app, this is a sober dating website. This website also works well from a home computer if you have access to one. 

Why is my activation e-mail not working?

This could be a variety of different reasons. Please take a moment to email us your username and we will activate your account promptly. Click here to e-mail us your username.

How much does a membership cost?

BRONZE – $9.99 every month (this is a reoccurring charge and will only stop when you cancel your membership) / SILVER -$19.99 for 3 months (one time charge – not reoccurring) / GOLD – $29.99 for 6 months (one time charge – not reoccurring) / PLATINUM – $49.99 for a lifetime membership (one time charge – not re-occurring) – Promo Codes can be found on our social media pages!

Can I have a refund?

We have a strict NO refund policy. Please see our Terms of Use for more details. Creating a profile and browsing other users is FREE. Please make sure you search for sober singles in your area before paying for a membership.

Inactive and outdated profiles are quite common for any online dating platform. We suggest sending a message anyway if you see a profile that interests you. You never know, someone may log back in and respond back! 

Are you 420 friendly? 

Yes we are 420 friendly – your sobriety is your business. We suggest stating that in your profile but that is entirely up to you. 

Why are my pictures not uploading from my phone?

The photo’s file size is most likely too large. Please try reducing the file size and try again. 
If you are unfamiliar with that process then we can certainly help. Please send the photo to us and we can help upload it to your profile. Click here to access the contact page.

How do I search for other members?

You must have a profile photo in place to search for other sober and single people on our dating site. From a home computer (after you have your photo in place) you will see a search members button right above your profile photo. Click there to search members.

From your Phone or I-Pad, the search members link will be located in the drop down menu (blue box with 3 lines above the green Profile button)

Do you have a promotional video I could share on social media or with a friend or family member?

Yes we do! Just copy, paste and share! https://vimeo.com/198336395 or click here to watch a Facebook interview with the Founder and Owner – Mike Reed

How do I cancel my membership?

Go to My Account > Cancel Membership. You will also be given the option to delete your profile during this process. Your paid membership will still remain active until your 1 month, 3 month or 6 month subscription expires. The Bronze – 1 month membership is our only reoccurring membership where there will be a monthly charge of 9.99. Silver, Gold and Platinum are all 1 time charges (your credit card will only be billed once) so there is no need to cancel.

Do you have any dating site reviews?

Please check our dating advice review when you get a moment.


Your privacy is important to us and we will never rent or sell your information.



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